You have expressed the feelings of many people affected by dizziness! It is not always easy to find support in your community; you end up seeing quite a few professionals and they aren’t always on the same page as to your diagnosis and treatment plan, and you are left with uncertainty about what you can expect in the future. Without getting into too much detail about your diagnosis and treatment (you can read more about BPPV here) I would like to encourage you to:
1) get informed (the link above is a good place to start) and then clarify with your healthcare professionals what their treatment plan is. Ask as many questions as you need. Read some more if you need to. Here is a list of recommended books.
2) once you feel you have a direction to follow for treatment, stick with it for a set amount of time. Six weeks is a reasonable time frame. During this time, try your very best to stick with the treatment plan and to stay positive.
3) use the online resources of our Society and your local sources of support. Since you mentioned that there are no specific dizziness support groups, how about you try your community for balance exercises, for example? You can also look for Tai Chi classes and classes designed for falls prevention. You will most likely find others dealing with similar issues.
4) At the end of your “trial” with this plan, reassess your symptoms and your goals. You may find that you were on the right track OR you may need to start on number one all over again and try a different treatment plan.
Keep in mind that, even if you need to go back and follow a different course of action, that is okay, it will not be forever. Give yourself again about six weeks time and reassess. Stay in the present moment as much as you can, focusing on what you can effectively do right then and there.